Disappointments and failures I was told are stepping stone to success , Since when ? Does anyone know how much it hurts once you fail at things you never expect you would. Telling stories of great people who failed at first and then achieved the exceptions are just a way to not blame the reason of your loss. They were not happy of what they had to face , the failure was not easy to accept then nor is it now. I would rather call them lucky , that they got a second chance , the stars were stronger the next time . But how many of us fail everyday , try it the second time too but still fail . Does that mean We will be the most successful ? Who will guarantee? You , me or some supernatural force , or will those who happily take the piece of their own cake and merrily enjoying it and giving their great success stories to others?? !!
And then we have the other saying that goes "..learn from your mistakes" , FAILURES are not mistakes , sometimes no mistake becomes a failure and sometimes only mistakes make you successful . Then comes the tips that is like a monologue given to you as if they are medicines of a disease you carry that leads to your failures . Guess the doctors? They are either your marks or the people who made it and you know they are not you neither are you them ! They are different , Does their size of boots fit you , does your size of cloth fit them ? NO ! not always at least . Then how can their tips , advice , strategies , tactic work for you ? Why is the world not ready to accept the uniqueness of each individual ?
If we fail at things , it is our fault and nothing else , Give us just one thing -
THE ASSURANCE FROM THE WORLD THAT IT WOULD BE PATIENT ENOUGH !
